The Sunny Side After Separation

Just like the darker days of winter will eventually lead to the sunnier seasons of summer, so too can we appreciate and trust the cyclical nature of separation and divorce. Although the path you walk through as you navigate big emotions, problems to solve and adversities to overcome seems long, what waits for you on the other side of the decision of anchoring into the divorce process is nothing short of sunshine and summertime. 

What can you expect when you are finally able to put the divorce process behind you? 

(1) A pool of personal freedom – You know that moment when you dive into the water and everything becomes quiet, still and holds no boundaries? This momentary pleasure is felt everyday as you explore life without goggles on, as the opportunities are endless and everything is available for you to swim in this new life chapter of exploration. 

(2) Turning up the heat on setting standards – It’s inevitable that as you understand what you no longer want or are willing to accept, that you will determine and identify your new expectations and standards more strongly with that you need next. You will anchor into a newfound strength that supports your desires and you will ensure that whatever doesn’t feel good stays out, as you create room for all of the amazing people, things and experiences that you want to let in. 

(3) Blooming season will arrive – Just like the sprinkled seeds in your garden take time to fully blossom into their gorgeous flowered essence, you can expect the same for yourself. You will change, become more colourful and glisten with your smile as you transform into the next version of you. Make sure to water yourself daily with self-love and kindness as you can trust that your petals of perfection will be ready once you are. 

As you land into your new season of personal freedom, setting standards and blooming to divine perfection, please know this: your summertime will never feel soul good.

 

Lyndsay Campbell is a co-parenting mother of two boys, a Life Transformation Coach and
Reiki Master.